Desty opens up about her upbringing, personal experiences, and the profound influence of family, Southern heritage, and life's challenges on her captivating musical storytelling.
Desty Darlene ©️ 2023
Today we have the pleasure to have her on Goathead!
GH: Can you tell us about your early exposure to music and how it shaped your artistic journey?
Desty: Growing up surrounded by music from my parents, who had deep connections to the music world, was incredibly influential. My dad's history with touring and performing, along with my mom's connection to gospel and southern songs, immersed me in a world of harmonious sounds. It was only natural for me to be drawn to music as a means of self-expression. The melodies and stories that filled our home inspired me to start writing my own music and share my emotions through this powerful medium.
GH: You mentioned performing alongside your parents and other artists. Could you share a memorable experience from those early years in the music world?
Desty: Absolutely. My journey into the music world began at a young age, thanks to the legacy of my parents. I had the privilege of sharing the stage with my dad, performing gigs that allowed me to experience live music's pulse. One standout memory was when I was just 9 years old; I entered recording studios and recorded a cover of "Stand by Your Man" by Tammy Wynette. Auditioning before large crowds became familiar, and performing live was exhilarating. However, performing alongside my mom and dad held a special magic that stemmed from our familial bond and shared love for music.
GH: Your connection to Southern roots and personal experiences seem to strongly influence your songwriting. Could you elaborate on that?
Desty: Absolutely, my Southern upbringing and personal experiences play a significant role in my songwriting. I gather raw materials from life—experiences, emotions, and subtle nuances—to shape my songs. Whether in a studio, by a campfire, or during a fleeting moment, I draw inspiration from various sources. Sometimes my personal journey sparks inspiration, and other times, it's observations of life around me. These diverse sources merge my Southern heart with the universal language of music.
GH: Your life has had its share of challenges. How do these experiences drive your music creation?
Desty: My life's resilience and challenges motivate me to create music. I've faced domestic violence, lost my mother to cancer, and experienced hardship. These experiences have shown me the fragility and strength of the human spirit. Alongside my father's sacrifices, caregiving role, and loved ones' battles with addiction, I find profound purpose. My songs transform pain into art, adversity into anthems. Through music, I unite hearts, illuminate hidden stories, and emphasize shared humanity. Each note and lyric speaks to healing, empathy, and awareness, aiming to remind others they're not alone and offering hope in the face of difficulties.
GH: Congratulations on your recent single release. Can you share more about your approach to creating music and what listeners can expect from your upcoming projects?
Desty: Thank you! "Backwoods Pageant," my first single, tells an empowering story of embracing one's true self. My music journey has ignited an unwavering passion, evident in each carefully crafted song. I aim to touch hearts, offer solace, clarity, and a sense of belonging. Through lyrics and melodies,
I share unique stories that resonate with audiences. My upcoming projects, including my next single, underline my commitment to sharing the power of music. As a singer, I invite everyone to embrace storytelling and self-expression, forging connections that go beyond mere notes and melodies.